You are currently browsing the category archive for the ‘Personal Development’ category.
Don’t just sing the notes.
Don’t just paint the colours.
Don’t just cook the ingredients.
Don’t just write the words.
Don’t just play the game.
Don’t just go through the motions.
I don’t know about you, but there are a lot of things that I wish I did differently in my past.
Words that I said, actions that I didn’t take, lessons that I didn’t learn, opportunities that I missed.
But they’re done.
I can apologise to others and to myself, but I can’t change the past.
However, thankfully, I can change the future.
I may have a few regrets from the past, but I can make sure that I minimise tomorrow’s regrets.
I believe that everyone is talented.
Everyone has the potential to be good at something.
Every single person on the planet is able to develop certain skills to a level that enables them to make a positive contribution to the world around them.
And that includes you.
Starting your own business or charity is difficult.
Developing new habits is hard.
Leading others can be lonely.
Doing anything remarkable with your life requires years of disciplined focus and sacrifice.
It will be challenging and there will be times – many times – when you feel like giving up.
So you need a reason to do what you do.
Don’t be distracted by what’s happening in the rear view mirror.
Don’t be put off by the drivers in the other lanes.
Don’t worry about the speed that others are going at.
Don’t watch the scenery.
Just keep your eyes on the road.
A daisy in a field full of daisies can feel insignificant.
It looks around and sees that it is the same as every other daisy.
It makes comparisons.
But here’s the thing.
It’s still a daisy.
It’s still beautiful, both in itself and in the context of the other daisies.
Courage is a muscle.
It needs to be exercised to increase in strength.
Some people seem to be born with more courage than others, just as some naturally have broader shoulders or stronger biceps.
But if people with more courage than others don’t it, it will atrophy.
Similarly, there are those who are born with less courage than others, but over time, they can build up their strength in this area.
Thomas Merton once prayed,
My Lord God, I have no idea where I am going,
I do not see the road ahead of me.
I cannot know for certain where it will end.
Nor do I really know myself,
and the fact that I think I am following your will
does not mean that I am actually doing so.
But I believe that the desire to please you does in fact please you.
And I hope I have that desire in all that I am doing. Read the rest of this entry »
We start as cowards.
We have aspirations, but the voices of our fears drown out the voices of our goals.
If you were being held over the edge of a cliff by your ankles, I suspect that you would see what matters.
You would think of all the people you would like to hug one more time and so that you could express how much you love them.
You would remember what your purpose was.
You would commit yourself to taking more risks.