If someone is rude to you, then…

If you have a stressful day at work, then…

If your partner isn’t feeling valued or loved, then…

If you are spending too much money on trivial things, then…

If you don’t feel like doing the right thing, then…

If your career is in a rut, then…

Too often, we focus upon the “if”, when it’s the “then” that makes the difference.