Too often we’re afraid of failure.
We don’t like being embarrassed by our own mistakes and we don’t like it when others are less than perfect.
So we avoid placing ourselves in situations where we can’t control the outcome or guarantee success.
But what if we looked at failure differently?
What if we saw failure as fertiliser?
What if, instead of being self-conscious about our errors, we saw our mistakes as an opportunity to learn, to persist , to get better?
What if, instead of seeing our mistakes as another reason to give up, we used them as a launching place to press on?
What if, instead of every failure confirming the message that aren’t destined for success, we saw each time that we get it wrong as another step closer to getting it right?
And what if, instead of being critical of the failure of others, we saw the progress that they are making towards their goals?
The only way to ensure that you never make a mistake would be to do nothing at all, which ironically is the biggest mistake you can make.
Every successful entrepreneur, artist, leader and athlete has used their failures as fertiliser.
Instead of being afraid of them, they’ve realised that they are necessary if they want to achieve their goals.
What about you?
Are you making enough mistakes?
Are the people around you?
Is your future being fertilised?
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April 4, 2013 at 3:37 am
Life Coach Spotter
Fully agree Darren!
So often failure is taken hard, personally, and felt to be finite and definite. When looking at it with a broader perspective, it’s really just a lesson, an opportunity for growth.
Very hard to see this early on though. Ususally because it feels so awful!
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April 5, 2013 at 7:23 pm
Darren Poke
Thanks mate, good point.
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April 4, 2013 at 1:31 pm
Alice Koko
Wonderful way how to put it!
This is a good example of changing our attitudes and perspectives. My mistakes serve me as stepping stones in my journey of life.
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April 5, 2013 at 7:24 pm
Darren Poke
Thanks Alice
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April 9, 2013 at 4:04 am
Jo Painter
Very thought provoking Darren, if only we could ensure our children understand and follow this
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April 9, 2013 at 10:12 pm
Darren Poke
Thanks Jo, If we want our children to understand this, we need to live it ourselves.
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