your-falls-dont-have-toYou will stumble as you go.

You will trip and fall from time to time.

You will take the wrong path, look around and wonder how you got there.

You will get lost, so very lost, and ask yourself if you will ever find your way again.

You will graze your knee, twist your ankle and hurt your wrist.

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you-were-born-to-standMost of us have an innate fear of looking stupid.

And when you think about it, it’s a logical fear to have.

It’s embarrassing to turn up to an event dressed too formally or too casually.

It’s awkward to walk into a room and think that people are talking about us.

We don’t want to quit our stable job to start a business that fails.

And who wants to stand up in front of a crowd with nothing to say?

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you-are-capable-ofYou’re pretty awesome.

You are valued and valuable.

You have the capacity to do remarkable things.

You are not defined by your past.

Be yourself, everyone else is taken.

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the-successful-people-weWhen you come across a speed hump in the road, you slow down your car and carefully drive over it.

When you buy a new appliance that has been wrapped extra carefully, you don’t just leave it on the shelf, you take the time to get it unwrapped and start using it.

When you walk along a path and there is a fallen tree in the way, you don’t just turn around and go back, you climb over it or walk around it.

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momentum-is-great-butMomentum is when something rolls down a hill, gathering speed as it travels.

But you have to get to the top of the hill first.

Momentum is when you are riding the crest of a wave in the ocean.

But you have to paddle out into the surf and probably get dumped a few times first.

Momentum is what happens when your work finally gets the recognition and credit it deserves in the public eye.

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do-it-or-rue-itDo you want to spend more time with your kids?

Do you dream of writing a book?

Do you have aspirations to start your own business?

Is there an exotic overseas destination that you’ve always wanted to visit?

Is the prospect of furthering your education intriguing?

Do you feel compelled to start a charity or make a difference to people in need?

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what-are-you-spreadingJust as a sneeze spreads germs to the people around us, so our attitudes, actions and words are contagious and have an impact on others.

It doesn’t matter if you are a high profile leader, or a quiet, unobtrusive introvert, you have an affect, whether you like it or not.

My question today isn’t, “Are you an influence?” Because I know that you are.  Your influence may be subtle or obvious, deliberate or accidental, but it’s definitely there.

My question for you is, “What are you spreading?”

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Without passion…

It’s just another meaningless day in the office.

It’s just another Monday morning.

It’s just another pointless meeting.

Life becomes just a humdrum, boring routine.

There’s nothing to get excited about.

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stay-ready-ready-forYou never know when your opportunity will arrive, so stay ready.

You never know when someone will need your expertise, so stay ready.

You never know when that door will open ever so slightly, so stay ready.

You never know when you’ll run into someone who needs some encouragement, so stay ready.

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happy-valentines-day-myOn Valentine’s Day 22 years ago, Karen and I shared our first kiss.

It was a fleeting, spontaneous moment that sparked an exciting adventure of love that has seen us live in 2 states, call 6 houses our home, own 3 dogs, have 3 terrific kids and start a business together.

We have laughed and cried together.

We have held hands and hurled angry words.

We have been filled with incredible love as we held our children for the first time and been gripped by terror as we wondered what to do next.

And as I look back, I wonder, what was my favourite Valentine’s Day?

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