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The real danger isn’t that you doubt yourself, it’s that you let those doubts hold you back.
The real danger isn’t that you are hurt by those you love, it’s that you are unable to forgive them.
The real danger isn’t that you lose your job, it’s that you stay in a dead-end role for 40 years. Read the rest of this entry »
There are 10 unstoppable forces in the world:
1. A rampaging elephant on the charge.
2. An albatross soaring high above the ocean.
3. A glacier sliding inexorably down a mountain.
4. A flooded river that has broken its banks.
If you smile just a little bit more.
If you hustle just a little bit more.
If you exercise just a little bit more.
If you read just a little bit more.
If you pray just a little bit more.
If you have just a little bit more passion. Read the rest of this entry »
When the voices of your critics are ringing in your ears, walk tall!
When you experience rejection after rejection, walk tall!
When every room you walk into seems to be full of people who doubt you, walk tall!
When you wake up feeling inadequate and insignificant, walk tall!
I know that you won’t make a sale to every prospect, but don’t say no to yourself before you pitch, that’s for them to do.
I’ve seen too many people fall into the habit of rejecting themselves.
They come up with a list of reasons for not taking the actions necessary for success.
“I’m not qualified.”
“I’m not good enough.”
“I’m not one of the chosen ones.”
“It’s a long shot anyway.”
You have a dream?
If it’s a worthy dream, you will have obstacles along the way and will face rejection from time to time.
Just make sure that the rejection doesn’t come from you.
They have two pictures in front of them that have 5-10 subtle differences and they need to circle the disparities between the two.
Let’s play a different version of spot the difference.
Look at yourself now and five years ago.
Look at your health, intellect, career, relationships, emotional intelligence, expertise, finances, faith, the progress that you’ve made towards your goals.
We have more activities, less time, more interruptions, less focus.
I don’t know how you feel, but with a business, three kids, a new dog, this blog, church, volunteering, speaking and everything else on my plate, I feel as though I’m always doing something and never have the time (or inclination) to stop.
But the reality is that I need to slow down every now and then, for my sanity and my health, if for no other reason.
So this post is a message to me as much as anyone else.
Inevitably, you will find people who don’t believe in your dreams.
Inevitably, you will have days when you feel like giving up.
Inevitably, the people around you will let you down.
Inevitably, you will lose momentum and motivation.
Inevitably, you will feel like settling for an ordinary life doing average work.
Then something else will happen.
Don’t pray for a path without rocks or obstacles, pray for stronger ankles to cope with the inevitable twists and turns.
Don’t pray for more opportunities, pray for better eyesight to see the opportunities that are already there.
Don’t pray for a life without fear, pray for a heart with the courage to stand up to anything.
Don’t pray for your critics to become silent, pray for thicker skin to withstand their barbs.
It’s not enough to be vaguely aware of your goals.
To just randomly scribble them down on a piece of paper and shove them into a drawer isn’t going to get you where you want to go.
You have to stalk your goals.
You have to obsess over them.
You have to lay awake at night thinking, dreaming and plotting.
You have to work inexorably towards them, going above, around or through any obstacles in your path.